- March 22, 2019
- Posted by: brianwrigley
- Category: Personal Growth
Accepting responsibility often sounds like standing in front of your parents with your head hung low, admitting to a mistake that you made. But the truth is, once you move past the initial burning embarrassment of admitting you messed up, you instantly feel like a wheight has been lifted. And if this is an attitude that you enforce throughout your life, you will end up being a much happier and fulfilled individual.
We’ve rounded up five benefits of accepting responsibility for yourself so that you can see exactly why this attitude shift is what you need in your life!
1. You Will Feel Better About Yourself
When you take responsibility for your decisions and actions, you go into situations with a mindset that is accepting towards all possible outcomes. If you stubbornly believe that you can’t make a mistake, then messing up will make you feel awful about yourself.
On the contrary, accepting responsibility will allow you to give yourself the space to make mistakes and eventually learn from them. A positive outlook to situations – even situations that don’t go as planned – will serve to make you more confident about yourself and help you to grow as an individual.
2. Your Productivity Will Increase
Responsibility is about acknowledging that you have control over your life. When you accept that, you end up shunning the tendency to blame your situation on other people or things.
As a result, instead of saying ‘I just don’t have the time’ when it comes to meeting deadlines or personal goals, you will be more conscious of how you are responsible to make the time for the things you want to achieve.
3. You Will Build Stronger Relationships
If you’re someone who refuses to accept responsibility for your own actions and never believes that you might be wrong, it can be exhausting for others to be around you. Relationships are always a two way street. If you show the other person that you are aware of your flaws and are willing to work on improving them, they will be more likely to open up to you in return and you will experience more fulfill filing relationships based on mutual trust and respect.
4. You Will Gain Respect
Speaking of respect – when you start taking responsibility, others will begin seeing you with much more respect. Think of a manager who refuses to accept that he’s given the wrong instructions on a project and then goes on to blame his team. Now think of a manager who accepts the oversight and takes responsibility in front of his team, and their boss. Who are you more likely to respect?
Accepting responsibility shows that you are someone who is confident, humble, and not afraid to own up to their flaws.
5. You Will Feel Empowered
When you’re not afraid of being blamed, when you accept that mistakes can be a lesson to learn from, and when you stop being scared of making mistakes in the first place – you open yourself up to a new level of confidence and empowerment. Your entire attitude can take a shift from feeling guilty to feeling positive and determined.
It’s not the easiest thing to accept responsibility – especially in difficult situations. But once you begin to see how it can have a positive effect on your outlook, there’s no going back!